Practical Guide: How to Buy Male Chastity Sex Toys
November 10, 2019
When you hear chastity, you may be thinking about sexual abstinence to keep yourself pure and preserved for your partner. While this might have been the true intention of chastity devices in medieval culture, these days, chastity is a common form of BDSM play.
The purpose of wearing male chastity sex toys is for sexual bondage and control. The wearer cannot engage in sexual intercourse or masturbation unless the Dom (also known as the key holder) permits it. Chastity sex toys can be wore for short sex play durations or long-term arrangements ranging from days to months.
Why Do Men Wear Chastity Sex Toys?
Teasing and Anticipation: When wearing a chastity device, a man is denied both erection and orgasm. This can be a highly erotic play to tease and built sexual anticipation for when he is released from the device.
Torture and Humiliation: Some people are turned on by the pain, frustration and humiliations of not accessing their genitals. Restriction of erection, ejaculation and orgasm can be painfully tormenting. Yet, this is how they achieve sexual gratification.
Control and Rekindle Sexual Desire among Couples: In BDSM play, by accepting to wear a chastity device, the wearer surrenders wholly to their dominant, allowing them to have total control of their pain and pleasure. The key holder decides when, where and for how long the wearer remains in chastity. This refocuses the male sexual interests to their partner, which can result to increase passion and sexual intimacy between couples.
Types of Male Chastity Sex Toys
Male chastity sex toys come in different types. Here is an overview of the most come devices:
Chastity Cock Rings Sex Toys
The chastity cock rings are a fine definition of bondage torture. The rings are fitted around the cock’s shaft, scrotum and head and locked with a padlock. The wearer can attain full erection, but have no way of touching their penis for masturbation or engage in sex.
Chastity Cock Cage Sex Toys
Chastity cock cages are designed to make erection uncontrollably uncomfortable or impossible. They consist of a cock ring, worn behind the scrotum and a tube which holds the penis. Those made for long-term wear have openings on the tip to allow urine to pass through freely. They also have open vents to allow air circulation and cleaning. Chastity cock cages made for short-term wear may incorporate a penis plug to provoke erection and increase sexual stimulation during bondage.
Chastity Belt Sex Toys
Chastity belts are designed with a thong characteristic with one strap fastening at the waist and another going between the legs to hold the penis. They need to be tightened into a comfortable fit that restricts the penis from assuming a phallic position. Chastity belts can only be used for short-term wear as they don’t allow access to the penis for urination or cleaning.
Things to consider when buying Male Chastity Sex Toys
- Get the Right Size
To get the desired tightness and discomfort, you need to get a device that fits you well. Too big and it will slip off or too small and you risk cutting blood circulation. If you are going for cock rings and cock cages, get a ring diameter that will fit your girth especially at the base of your scrotum. You also need to get a cage with a comfortable insertable length to prevent squeezing your penis too hard. If you are not sure about your size, wrap a tape measure around your cock when flaccid. Divide the resulting circumference by 3.14 to get diameter. Also measure your penis length to know how many inches will be right for your insertable cage.
- Contemplate on the Material
The general materials used to make chastity sex toys include metal, leather, polycarbonate, silicone and plastics. Although this decision will be mostly guided by your personal preference and desires, here is an overview of the different materials used:
Metal: medical grade stainless steel is the most common metal used because of its body safety and hygienic nature. Metal chastity devices provide a greater sense of bondage and security as they are much more difficult to escape from. They are heavier than other materials, although some men like the kinky pull they offer.
Leather: chastity devices made of leather have a gradation masculine charm to them. Most use a combination of leather straps and steel rings. Although aesthetically arousing to look it, leather is not best suited for long-term wear because it’s not very agreeable with water.
Polycarbonate: this makes for light and hygienic devices that can be worn for prolonged periods of time. They provide a medium level of security. In the case you need to remove, they can be cut with a side or wire cutter.
Silicone: this makes for super light and flexible devices. The materials quickly warm to the body. Silicone is also a bit stretchable hence, accommodates a bigger girth making them the most comfortable. However, the back ring can tighten excessive causing soreness for some men.
- Consider Personal Hygiene
If you are looking for a long-term chastity device, choose one that allows good hygiene. Devices with open tips allow for free urine flow and cleaning. Also choose those will good ventilation to allow airflow to the penis. Avoid chastity toys that are totally enclosing as they can encourage bacterial build-up and foul odour.
You also need to pay particular attention to the device cleanliness. Adapt a good cleaning route where you remove, clean and disinfect your chastity devices to prevent infections. Make sure to dry both the device and yourself completely, relax the muscles and lube up before re-insertion. This will allow your body to regain a normal stretch and blood flow, which is essential in keeping your tissues healthy.
- Consider your Key Holder
This is in the hopes that your chastity is a shared desire. Do they like your choose? You key holder deserves a sat; it’s in their hands that you will know the pains and pleasures of chastity.
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